The One With the Brotherly Love
It’s becoming an expensive weekly date, but I can definitely say it’s been worth it. No, I’m not talking about my boyfriend. If I were, then it wouldn’t be expensive at all on my end as he’d be footing all the bills! Heh! I’m talking about my brother and me. Yes, my brother and I have been getting along, and it has resulted in several hours a week of us just hanging out, having a great time, and not bickering. It’s pure heaven for our mom and dad!
See, this started out with Mother’s Day. It was ultimately just a task that needed to be fulfilled, but it turned out becoming one fun day at the mall. Well, it was definitely a fun one for me at least. I shopped, and he served as my conscience—is it a want or a need? Then, I became his chauffeur—picking him up and dropping him off at school and at work and such. It’s definitely a boring task and an annoyance when it means I have to get off the couch and stop watching my on-line shows, but then last Friday it became one great date! We grabbed some lunch at Checkers where they have these fantastic signature French fries and their shakes are sooo good. Afterwards, we headed to the movies and saw Spider-Man 3. I paid for lunch, and he grabbed the movie tickets! And today, well today was another fun one…how does a late breakfast at IHOP sound to you?
It’s crazy because as any classic brother/sister relationships goes, my brother and I bicker until there’s no tomorrow. There were days when mom and dad would just stare us down and then threaten to pull out the good ol’ belt should we decide to continue on further with our nonsense. But eversince I’ve gone to college, the relationship between my brother and I have gotten a lot better. He and I are actualy functioning people in the house—well for the most part, we’re still pretty silly and annoying for my parents at times. I mean, what kids aren’t, right? The same goes for my older sisters and me. I used to always fight with them and just argue about the dumbest things, but now we actually talk and consult and even borrow clothes and shoes from each other without having to go as deep as the third degree! We’re actually all more like friends now…
And so it may seem that absence does make the heart grow fonder, or at least in the realm of brotherly/sisterly love. I can’t say the same for my high school love that sizzled then fizzled as I went into college, but then again, I’m not giving up hope on long distance relationships yet. I am still with Shawn, who is now about 5 hours away from me since we’re on summer vacation!
College is indeed not only a time to get older but at time to grow older.
Well, my dear future Gamecocks, I hope that the sun is just right and the heat not too overbearing! It gets too hot around here in South Carolina, but of course it isn’t summer if it’s not 90 degrees! I hope y’all are having a grand summer. Enjoy not having to open books but more importantly enjoy having now the chance to open up with family and spend more time with them! Catch y’all later on the flipside, future Gamecocks!










